Getting over it

I was told today to get on with my life. While I realize that it's something I definitely need to do, is today the day? Tomorrow? How about the next day? I'm thinking it's not something you just decide to do one day - or is it? So many uncertainties around it. How does one go about getting on with their life? I thought that's what I was doing? I figured there would just be some days that it would be a little harder but that was to be expected. Was I wrong? Am I just wallowing? I've definitely had more time to think about it than the average person - and I don't think I've come up with any answers. Just more questions. Back to the "getting on with it" thing.... I think I've got to look into it more. Maybe this is the right time for a little outside help. Maybe that's where I'll find some of the answers I'm looking for.